The things I want to learn about life before the 18th | mteodoraa

Hi, how are you feeling today? Do you enjoy this gloomy weather or do you miss the sunny summer days? Just don’t forget to enjoy everything that your life provides. Today I have a slightly different post for you where I will tell you and discover some of the things that I want to learn and apply in my life before I reach the age of 18, which is so soon  (25.12.). Many times I stay in wonder when I realize that time has passed quickly, and that we so little know about life. Even if we know, we don’t  apply it in our everyday lives. That’s why I will show you some of my tips for a beautiful life, and some things that I want to become aware of before I turn 18, one of my turning points of life.

I hope that you will at least  stop for a little and think about what life is, and how important it is to live a life . So we can together try to change the view of life. Do you have some tips or goals that you want to achieve as far as your thoughts and your life are concerned? Feel free to write me in comments, as always, and I hope you like this post. Enjoy! ❣

1. Never deprive someone of hope; it might be all that they have

First, and probably the most important thing is that you should never, but never destroy someone else’s hope, and belief. Because many time life throws us on the ground and everything we have is that spark of hope we still keep in our heart, hope that it will be better, that we are brave, and strong enough. So that’s why you should never try to destroy other people hope, because the hope is all we have. If you don’t believe in miracles, that’s your thing, but don’t take away the magic of believing from someone else. That person didn’t deserve that. Also, fight and don’t let others to extinguish you hope, because that hope is our light through dark streets. Fight, because you didn’t deserve that your light shuts off when you are afraid of dark.

2. Keep secrets

It is very important to be a loyal friend, a partner, a family member. Even if you may not like that person, understand that this person had confidence in you when she gave you her secret. It’s not called a secret accidentally. There is no need to turn your ‘i won’t tell anyone’ into ‘ i will just tell him, her’ and so everyone knows from your mouth what was needed to be left only in your heart, surely. Don’t let people lose confidence in you, it can hurt you. If not right away, one day you will feel it, and you will regret, and repentance will hurt. So psst, secrets are secrets, be loyal and faithful person to yourself before you are others. And don’t forget, everyone has secrets, so well, keep what you reveal to trust.

3. Never give up on anybody
This is a very difficult and  hard work on yourself, so on others. But it links with the first one, if you have hope, then you have everything. Believe in the wonders, believe that love will change a person, that your support will melt someone’s heart, that trust and devotion will destroy the walls. Don’t give up so easily from your friend, partner, family. Maybe they only need love and support. People are people, so offer help and don’t give up. Because we all strive to find someone who will never give up on us. So don’t let yourself to be the person who gives up on others.

4. Be brave

Even when you think that courage is crazy and that you have nothing of it, never forget – luck always follows those who are brave. So always be brave even if your heart dances on the edge of the high tower of fear, be brave. Or you say that you are, no one will know the truth. Because they brave one can everything, and if you don’t know a person who is brave, you can  become one and look at the mirror. Now guess why luck follows brave one.

5. Be romantic

People often forget how important it is to be romantic towards themselves, others, towards life. Let yourself to enjoy in love and in those little things. To blow up, but also to sneak someone. Do not be so rough, love is the most beautiful feeling in the world,  you know that.

6.  Give people the second chance, but never a third

 It is important to give people second chance, ask yourself how many times have you got chance to fix your mistakes. To give chance one time is enough. If someone made a mistake, that person will see its own mistakes and will never do the same. The person who does the same thing for the third time, you can be sure it will do it for thirty-third time. So give chance, but when that chance is used in the wrong way, stop losing your time.

7. Be a good loser – be a good winner

You will lose many battles in life. But when you lose your battle, you never lose the war.Therefore, when you lose,  lose proudly, strong, without giving up. Be a good loser, one that will rise after each fall. If you win, be a good winner. Do not look from the heights on the people that are down because you used to be there, and between the top and the bottom is just a moment. So if you lose, lose in the best way you know, and if you are at the top, be proud,  because you were the best you could be.

8. Become the most positive person you know

Be the best person you love, because you live with yourself before you live with anyone else. Therefore, when the next time you look in the mirror, you need to see a smile on your face, a playful heart and a positive thought. May your eyes be full of shine and let them all envy you. Even when you’re not happy, try to be. Happiness does not require much, she just wants to never raise her hand from her. Be the best version of yourself that when you are alone you can love what you are.


9. Keep it simple

Don’t complicate thing a lot. Even if it starts to complicate, go out of that circle. Because we all know, more things get complicated, more difficult they become. So keep with simplicity and keep your life as simple as possible.

10. Don’t expect life to be a fair

Don’t expect from life to be a fairytale, but you can always make it once. There’s a lot of troubles, even more to come, just don’t give up, sing beautiful songs, read beautiful books, dance on the streets, sing loudly in cars, don’t drive fast, enjoy the view. Find friends, play hide and seek, read favorite book 10 time and cry when your favorite movie scene every time. Just cry, just laugh, and just live life before you die. And don’t give up, just don’t. Because someone loves you, and that someone is you. More than anything in the world.


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61 thoughts on “The things I want to learn about life before the 18th | mteodoraa

  1. weedjee says:

    Wow, what I can do about you, dear friend you’re a lovely woman and you’ve got a great heart, you love petty things and you know what you want. It’s simply a nice step to you and all reader all around the world
    Happy weekend and Xmas season a new birthday… it’s only a number your feeling are eternal!

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  2. bcparkison says:

    Wise words coming from someone so young. You have a very bright future ahead of you.
    I didn’t think much about bravery except in the context of war etc. until my husband passed away. Then I had to get out of bed and continue life. It does take a brave soul to do that. Thank you for this thoughtful post.

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  3. Ward Clever says:

    You have got to be the wisest person on the blogosphere, dear lady. I learn from your words every time I come to your blog. You are certainly headed for success, and your outlook is unstoppable! 😍❤
    I am in awe of you, truly. 😊

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  4. anne leueen says:

    All such wise suggestions to live by. I just put up a post today about someone I know who has been battered by some terrible physical luck ( When Life gives you Lemons) but he has risen above it and made the best of things. It is remarkable and at your young age you embody many of the qualities my friend has and this will see you through whatever times lie ahead.

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  5. Diana says:

    As always, your writing is uplifting and wondrous. Dear Manić, so youthful yet such profound thinking. You are a sweet soul, a gift to the world with many future years of motivating words to share! Happy Birthday in December 🌹🌹🌹

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  6. rolandlegge says:

    I wish people my age were as wide as you. The world would be much better place if people followed your suggestions. I am 55 years old and I still have great hope for the world. I want to share the Enneagram personality system with as many people as I can. I think it can help people to live out your values through helping people by finding their own inner wisdom. You are an awesome young women. It is a pleasure to meet you through your blog. In peace, Roland ☺️

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  7. Tom says:

    Great list! I believe all of these are life-long things to keep learning and developing. I would also add knowing Jesus more and more, and become more like Him each day. Thanks for sharing!

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